Financial Independency

This guide provides a plan for achieving financial independence and escaping abuse. The steps include creating a budget, saving money, increasing income, reducing expenses, and seeking help from supportive organizations. However, it is particularly difficult for ExMuslims who live with controlling religious parents as they may have rigid beliefs about women’s roles and responsibilities, and may not allow their daughters to work or have access to money. They may also use religion to justify their control over their daughters, making it harder for the daughters to challenge their authority or seek help from others. Additionally, fear of losing family and community ties may make them feel trapped. Achieving financial independency is not only about having money, it’s also about having control over one’s own life and being able to make choices and decisions. It’s important to have not only financial independency but also emotional and psychological support.

  1. Start by creating a budget. Identify your income, expenses, and debts. This will help you understand your financial situation and determine how much money you can save each month.
  2. Begin saving money. Put aside a portion of your income (if any) each month in a savings account or other safe investment. This will give you a financial cushion and provide a safety net in case of emergencies.
  3. Look for ways to increase your income. Consider taking on additional part-time work, freelance projects, or other opportunities to earn more money. This can help you save more money and achieve financial independence faster.
  4. Reduce your expenses. Cut back on unnecessary expenses and focus on the essentials. Look for ways to save money on groceries, transportation, housing, and other necessities.
  5. Seek help from supportive organizations. There are many organizations that can provide financial assistance and support for individuals who are living with abusive parents. These organizations can provide resources, advice, and guidance to help you achieve financial independence.
  6. Create a plan for leaving. Once you have saved enough money, create a plan for leaving your parents’ home and achieving financial independence. This may include finding a new place to live, securing a job, and building a support network of friends and family.

Remember, achieving financial independence is not easy, but it is possible. With determination and hard work, you can create a better future for yourself and escape the abuse. You are not alone, and there are people and organizations who are ready to help you.

Please note that the information provided in this guide is for informational purposes only. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice and should not be relied upon as such. Your individual circumstances, needs, and safety should be taken into account when making any decisions or taking any actions based on the information provided in this guide. Additionally, please be aware that the information provided in this guide may not be appropriate or suitable for all individuals, and any action taken based on the information provided is done so at your own risk.